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Tuesday, October 07, 2008

Livin' the dream

After our day at the beach, we decided on a day of rest. It was a day of laundry doing, General Hospital watching, and spaghetti making. We did venture outside for a two-mile jog around the neighborhood, which was (a) hilly and (b) hot but still nice. We finished off the day watching Forgetting Sarah Marshall, which made us laugh a whole lot.

Which brings us to yesterday. We drove back into Haleiwa to visit S.'s favorite coffee shop, the Coffee Gallery. It was as cute as she promised ... she got a drink called the Coconator and I got an iced hazelnut soy latte.

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We snacked on things called California Bars and Banana Date Blobs and sat outside on the patio with some chickens, talking about The Sopranos (which she is just finishing for the first time) and Deadwood (which I'm encouraging her to watch next).

Next she took us to the Soap Factory, housed in an old sugar mill. It smelled like heaven, and we bought some soap for the road. We stopped in a shop next-door that's also a coffee factory; I was talked into a sample and luckily noticed the small worm floating in it before taking the first sip.

Soap Factory in Wailua

Inside the Soap Factory

We were left wondering which beach to visit. So we headed along the North Shore, and each beach was of course more stunning than the one we just passed. Ultimately we decided to visit Turtle Bay, where her parents stayed when they were here and where Forgetting Sarah Marshall was filmed. Like geeks, we got excited to see the things like the desk where Mila Kunis worked, the bar, the restaurant, and so forth. The beach there was lovely and relaxing and we settled into the sand with our mango (her) and raspberry (me) slushies and magazines.

Turtle Bay

Turtle Bay

Turtle Bay

Turtle Bay beach

I have only met two locals here who were anything less than friendly -- one at the farmer's market, who became livid when I realized I had just spent $10 on four mango/peach scones (I dislike both mangoes and peaches) instead of four cheese biscuits and asked to exchange them, unopened and paid for 5 seconds before, for something else. And one was on the beach at Turtle Bay. He wanted to sell us some "Hawaiian art," and when we (politely) declined, he set off on a tirade about how visitors act like "they" offend us, but it is we who offend them. He said, "You're looking at someone who's pure." Then as we packed up to leave, he told us to go ahead and leave because we'd spent enough time on "their" beaches. Then he called out to S. as we once again politely declined his offer to sell us some art, "You live here! You should know better!" S. has lots of thoughts and insights into the "us" vs. "them" situation in Hawaii, and I have to say it's pretty damn fascinating.

Turtle Bay

We walked along the shore back to the car and did not leave until embarking on a covert mission led by the intrepid S. to find the beach cottages where Aldous, Sarah Marshall, and Jason Segel stayed in the movie. It was exciting.

Turtle Bay beach cottages

We then headed home, at which point we headed to two exercise classes she was teaching. One used all balls ... the body ball, the medicine ball, the pilates ball. Thankfully, it was only 30 minutes because though it was fun, it was hard! Next came Rep Reebok, and I have to say that it was also tough but I loved it! I kept thinking how much my sister would like this class. My friend is a great teacher.

We got some Thai take-out and headed home; S. and her husband watched Heroes, and I took to my bed to watch the season premiere of Friday Night Lights online (wonderful), and that was the end of yesterday. It was another great day; apparently there are no bad days in Hawaii.

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5 Comments:

At 9:25 PM, Blogger Angie said...

As a long-time reader who also lives in Hawaii, I'm so glad that you've had a good time here! I hate that you've seen the other side of aloha (the "ainokea" side), but in all my years living here, I've only rarely been confronted with the haole hate. Were you able to go to the swap meet while you were here?

 
At 9:54 AM, Blogger Coleen said...

Oh, the swap meet. I dearly wish to go back the swap meet; I would spend all day there just people-watching, because that is the true treasure right there.

 
At 7:52 PM, Blogger eliza said...

angie ... I truly had the best time. Thanks for teaching me the opposite of aloha (ainokea) -- I did not know it had a name. Truly, those instances were few and far between. Mostly, it was just awesome in every way! Whereabouts do you live? We passed the swap meet a few times, but we never actually went to it. I think my friend has been, though.

coleen -- I will definitely go the next time I'm there. Which will hopefully be sooner rather than later, for I miss it already!

 
At 9:07 PM, Blogger Angie said...

Eliza, my husband is also in the Navy, so we live in a housing area across from the airport. This is our third time here, and I can honestly say I'm ready to come back to the mainland--I miss Target :)

As for "ainokea" (if you pronouce it, it sounds like "I no care" in pigdin), it really seems to be more prevalent with (some)younger people or those living/working in a high tourist area. I'm sure you saw that there are parts of Oahu that are just mind-blowingly gorgeous, and there are others that look like they could be in a third-world country. It's hard to make a good living here for many people and they blame that upon the outsiders (haoles), whether they be military or tourists. It can be a sad situation...and I'll stop here :) I could talk foreverabout it, but I won't!

Coleen, I think you should come back to Hawaii for your honeymoon! I'm also an old Hussified reader and followed the story of your romantic engagement :)

And I don't know if this is the place to say this, but I was reflecting back on all of the journals that I've been following for 8 or 9 years, and I really appreciate you for writing! I feel like I know so many people (even though I'm the queen of lurkers), and your words really have the ability to brighten my day. Thank you and aloha nui loa!

 
At 2:47 PM, Blogger eliza said...

Angie ... we probably passed by your very neighborhood multiple times over the course of my visit. Small world! And, like you, talk of missing Target was prevalent among those with whom I chatted while I was there. I am so fascinated by the relationship between the various people in Hawaii ... I grilled my friend about it constantly. It is definitely an interesting sociological phenomenon. Thanks for weighing in on it! And thanks for your kind words about my writing!

 

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